In the definition of the “Law of Love” as written in Iyanla Vanzant’s definition based on her teachings in the class Practical Metaphysics at the Inner Vision Institute for Spiritual Development it says….
“As human beings, we often confuse our mental and emotional constructs of relationships, needs, and desires with love. We believe that we love people and they love us in return. TheTruth is, we are seeking a greater experience of the love within ourselves. In turn we want to share that love with the particular person.”
Once we move into the feelings that we are experiencing we can then make a choice to love. even if that love is to our self in that moment. When we love ourself and allow ourself to heal that feeling of hurt from the wounded inner child we can then experience that Love from within. When we experience the softening that happens naturally as a result of this nurturance then we can offer it to the other, the situation, person, job or circumstance. A pooling of energy happens spontaneously within the heart and a pouring of that pool of love washes clean the sin (sin errr in judgement) and all things are made new.
John Randolph Price has a book called the “Twenty-Two Angels” that govern our lives. These Angels are causal powers in the Universe. The Angel that I found myself in direct relationship with was the Angel of Temptation and Materiality. This Angel is represented by the zodiac sign Capricorn.
After practicing the Sufi Elemental Healing Breaths (found on my website) Bring your awareness to your knees. Breathing with your awareness there for a minute or two move to your bowels. Breathing with your awareness there for a minute or two move to your neck. Breathing with your awareness there for a minute or two slowly rub your fingers together and bring your awareness back to the room. I suggest you journal your feelings and be aware of your thoughts, food cravings and emotions for the next few days after.